I wanted to pay tribute to him in the most appropriate way - for me. I found this to be the most fitting, as it is my own personal forum.
Ed was one of my biggest supporters of my blog and my Facebook Blog Page. He commented regularly and always let me know how he felt about what I had to say - the good, the bad and the ugly.
I type this through tears. Ed was a good friend. Someone I cared about. Someone who crawled under my skin and wormed his way into my heart. The heart that now feels like it's on fire.
It would be so cliche to say that Ed was a great man, but he was.
|The Sal & Ed - "Jenn Sandwich" Special|
Ed was so much to so many - fun, always fun. I know right now he'd be pissed that I'm crying, but we friend people - We're all supposed to grow really old and launch spit balls at each other from the other side of the nursing home.
Today, after hearing the news my mind flashed to so many scenes in my life where Ed was a part of it. I remember (all the way) back to Mr. Scielzo's 8th grade science class. Him sitting at the desk next to me drumming on the desk.
Ed and I didn't remain friends after high school, maybe not even after junior high school. It's hard to remember. We had a renewed "Facebook Friendship". All of us Clifton High School people - or at least the group of us that get together the most often. The first time I saw Ed again after 20 some odd years, he said... "Jenn, I have to tell you - and don't get mad - but I had to year book you when you friend requested me."
I got over that & that became the beginning of our fun "rekindled" friendship. There were many fun outs with Ed - not just Ed for anyone who may be wondering - our group. He was even the "hubby approved date" on outings my husband didn't feel like attending. Ed picked me up at the front door and delivered me home in one piece. Safe and sound. No issues, no worries.
Ed and I often
Because under that stubborn, sometimes pain in the butt - was the sweetest, kindest, gentlest human being.
Someone you can't help but love. Someone who took a little piece of my heart along with him.
|Christmas 2011 - my house|
He was always so kind hearted. He would do anything for anyone any time. Out of the way - not a problem.
Ed lived his life. He had fun. Lots of it. I'm not sure there was an outing he's ever missed, if he did it was because he was at a Super Bowl or the Grand Canyon. He was always a part of the party, and for that I'm grateful.
Many times we'd have conversations and he'd jokingly say that he was looking for Mrs. Right now. I'd ask him what about Mrs. Right - and he simply said that just didn't work out for him. Maybe he'd just been single for too long.
What he didn't realize is that already had the deep love of many, many women. Maybe not exactly in the way he was hoping for - but if you look through Ed's pictures on Facebook - he's almost always surrounded by hot women. Women who all called him friend and who all loved him.
Many a blog post was written here with Ed in mind... I won't tell all, but for certain the post:
If Today Was Your Last Day (you can click on the highlighted area to read the edited version which shows the initial inspiration) Now that I look at the title of the blog, it seems ironic.
There are so many amazing things about Ed - I could go on all day about him.
The one thing I want to share that really stuck in my mind is about a friend of his who asked him out to eat - and he declined for no real good reason. He just didn't feel like going. A week later that friend died. Ed always kept that as a lesson to himself to be with his friends - often.
For that lesson he extended to me, I am thankful. As I did not decline the last invitation. Though it was several months ago now, I am grateful to have had that time with my dear friend.
I will miss the banter, I will miss the "big ass hugs" and I will miss his spirit and love for life.
So Ed, I throw back your immortal words... Next time I see you, you're going to get one big ass hug!
Ed, I love you and I will miss you.
Rest softly on the wings of angels dear friend... Or dance on the clouds. It's all good.
This is the kind of person my friend, Ed was... This is from his Facebook page from Thanksgiving:
Edmund V Cussick III
November 22, 2012
A little reflection this Thanksgiving. I don't have a lot to show for my life, I'm 47yrs old, live in a small 3rm apartment and drive a 10yr old car. I've never aspired to greatness, and in that respect, I've been quite successful. Part of the reason is I can be lazy, the other part is I've always been pretty content with what I have. And most of my life, I've been more concerned with doing things rather than having things. I may not have a nice big house, but I've sat on the edge of the Grand Canyon and watched the sunrise, I've been to places all around the country that people come from all around the world to see, I've been to the Super Bowl, and many other great sporting events and concerts. And while I don't have a lot of money, I have something that all the money in the world can't buy-You. The love, (and hopefully), respect , of my family and friends, means more to me than any possession ever will. Without you, I am, and have nothing. But with you, I have more than I will ever need. So as you all gather with loved ones today and every day, Be thankful not for WHAT you have in your life, but WHO you have in your life. The people in your life will provide you with more joy, inspire you, and lift you higher than any money or things will. Have a Wonderfull Thanksgiving, and as always, I love you.